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The Ruler of The 7th House
Describes Your Partner and Relationships Extremely Well!

The ruler of the 7th house is a major indicator of the way your relationships evolve and the choice of partners.

In astrology, every zodiac sign is ruled by a planet or a Light (the Sun and the Moon).

When a house cusp falls in a certain zodiac sign, we know that the planet or Light that rules that zodiac sign also rules that house.

If Capricorn is on the 2nd house cusp, Saturn rules the 2nd house because it also rules Capricorn.

We always take the modern rulerships into account (assigning Uranus to rule Aquarius, Neptune to rule Pisces and Pluto to rule Scorpio) but do not neglect the fact that Mars co-rules Scorpio, Saturn co-rules Aquarius and Jupiter co-rules Pisces.

As of today, we are convinced that the modern rulers do work but we have also found the co-rulers to work too in some instances.

As far as our research stands (and it's not yet conclusive at all), there may be a difference between day and night births.

Just for your information: a day birth is seen from the natal chart when the Sun resides in the houses above the horizon (7 to 12); a night birth is seen from the natal chart when the Sun resides in a house below the horizon (1 to 6).

In our opinion, astrological research should take this difference into account.

The rulerships:
* Aries is ruled by Mars
* Taurus is ruled by Venus (as a Morning Star)
* Gemini is ruled by Mercury (as a Morning Star)
* Cancer is ruled by the Moon
* Leo is ruled by the Sun
* Virgo is ruled by Mercury (as an Evening Star)
* Libra is ruled by Venus (as an Evening Star)
* Scorpio is ruled by Pluto and co-ruled by Mars
* Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter
* Capricorn is ruled by Saturn
* Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and co-ruled by Saturn
* Pisces is ruled by Neptune and co-ruled by Jupiter

The rulerships are a very important part in delineating horoscopes because they show the core or essence of the way the topics that are related to that house will unfold and develop.

In relationship analysis, we ALWAYS take the ruler of the 7th house into account because that's where we'll find the way relationships will unfold and develop.

It also shows the way "the other(s)", your partner(s) behave or who they are.

Ir gives some more detail pertaining the partner, beside the element that is on the 7th house cusp.

Also, additional information about your partner can be found in case a planet is conjunct the ruler of the 7th house.

When the ruler of the 7th house is retrograde at birth, "the other", the partner and everyone you meet or encounter never tells it all...

There is some secrecy involved.

Also, the (significant) "other" or the partner may have (or even be) a problem, a burden, some frustration that is not easily talked about.

The other does not reveal him or her nature entirely and he or she may keep things to him- or herself.

A retrograde ruler of the 7th house denotes someone who rather RE-treats, is shy, modest, self-conscious and sometimes even feels inferior.

Expect a solitary person to be your partner, someone who at times strikes against life.

Sometimes you will have to face rejection ("the other" is turning his or her back to you), and might have to live with denial and/or maladjustment regarding the people you meet or encounter.

The ruler (also called "Lord") of the 7th house retrograde may denote someone who returns after some interruption, tries to correct errors and/or tries to RE-concile or RE-unite.

Sometimes "the other", the partner too can be rejected, sent away.

He or she may not be willing to take part in some activities (often because he or she feels deeply hurt).

Also consider that a retrograde ruler of the 7th house may denote a person in ill health, but holding on!

A retrograde ruler of the 7th house in Cancer indicates a partner who dislikes household activities while a retrograde ruler of the 7th house in Libra suggests the partner dislikes socializing. 

Below you can find the core meanings of the (direct) ruler of the 7th house in the 12 different houses of the natal chart.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 1st house
You may be under the influence of the partner.

You tend to follow and submit to the other, the partner as well.

The danger is to become totally dependent and pay too much importance to the opinions of someone else, the partner also.

The partner, but also encounters tend to trigger you, bring you to action and this rulership points to the need to attend activities and events to develop yourself.

Love at first sight and sudden encounters/attractions influence your life.

The partner brings you in motion and is the force that drives you.

In the long run, relationships tend to be deceptive.

A love relationship tends to evolve into a relationship full of disputes.

This rulership tends to indicate inner insecurities that need to be balanced by someone else, by a partner.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 2nd house
The 2nd house is the most stable (inert) house of the zodiac.

The ruler or lord of the house of relationships in this fixed house is often about stalemate situations pertaining eternal longings.

You may be stuck in love and cannot get out of it but it may also indicate feeling uncomfortable and tense with someone, a partner, or with others.

Relationships should be stable and if a relationship is not possible or not an option, stability is found in material gain and accumulating possessions.

Also, the 2nd house does not like change, even fears it.

Hence, once a relationship sets in, it's not easy to break up when feelings start to change.

Material goods and/or finances can be a binding factor in relationships. 

This rulership is often indicative of rejections (either because you are rejected or you reject the other) because you judge others, the partner as well, because of its (added) value.

What has no (added) value, you will reject.

Relationships tend to influence your self-worth enormously.

Relationships may develop slowly and with difficulty.

It's not always the partner you're dreaming of that you will marry!

Often, the partner is involved in your business (love relationships and business tend to go hand in hand).

This rulership is very business-minded with clients and/or customers providing an income for you.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 3rd house
The 3rd house is the most unstable and volatile house of the zodiac.

Almost all relationships in your life may vanish and it's highly difficult to find a relationship that will last a life long.

Also, you want to be seen and heard and tend to always promote yourself to your environment.

You need a partner to show yourself to and discuss your interests with.

Only by encountering and encountering others your world view and understanding will develop more quickly.

You do need a whole lot of attention but still keep your distance (after all both the 3rd and 7th houses are distant air houses).

The partner is your mirror and the need to communicate with the other/partner is part of your life.

You also need a lively partner.

The outer appearance of the other is of the utmost importance and the pitfall is that you bond with someone who may have a gorgeous body but who is totally unsuitable for you.

Your partner may be much younger than you are.

Because the 3rd house is a cerebral house also, you need an intellectual partner.

It's likely (s)he is a lot away, absent (on the road or traveling -- often for work).

This rulership tends to keep relationships rather superficial, without deep emotional ties (which is not bad at all).

Ruler of the 7th house in the 4th house
Encounters and relationships bring you into an emotional state.

You are easily touched or moved by (encountering) other people and/or all that happens in your surroundings.

You are very impressionable indeed.

You are very sensitive and tend to identify yourself with the other, the outer world.

You need to become more detached emotionally though.

You MUST have a partner to feel good and you are a very private person.

You should learn to be more independent though.

Very often, your relationship and family life are not in harmony and may collide.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 5th house
Flirting is part of your life and "the other", the partner, brings you in a state of creative self-expression.

You want to enjoy life with the other through shared hobbies and/or sports and/or creative endeavors.

You need 'the other', someone else, to keep you going and increase your self-expression.

It's the other, the partner who ignites/triggers your creative drives, who is your source of inspiration and makes life worthwhile.

You need a partner to look up to, who has flair.

Relationships need something playful.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 6th house
In relationships, you tend to be careful and rather submissive.

You may be shy and need a friendly environment.

You can't stand conflicts and feel easily rejected or neglected.

You pay attention to the details and your partner has to be neat.

You will need (and learn) to be more selective by encountering others as well.

Your partner may have a weak health and/or you may encounter him or her in or through your working environment.

The partner, but others also, may help you to cope with the practical and daily realities.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 7th house
Your partner may be quite selfish or self-sufficient and goes for his or her own urges and instinctive drives.

In a certain way, the partner lives his or her own life, detached from your life.

Your partner may be eccentric who does not want to belong to a certain gang/group/family.

You are very intellectual and need mental stimuli.

You cannot stand differing opinions with the partner and thus tend to neglect and hide disagreements or disputes.

Most often, you cannot cope with rejection even though you should learn to allow it because it's part of taking clear decisions resulting in definite effects.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 8th house
The 8th house is the house of eternal longings.

You feel attracted to people who will not (never) let you go.

Your partner should be a tower of strength, even if life changes.

This position can point to a very stable union, but not necessarily a happy one, whatever happens in your life.

Encounters can be highly impressive and intense and leave you with deep and often painful (unfulfilled) desires.

Relationships should be built on fidelity, stability and reliability.

In case these principles cannot be attained, relationships tend to become a cruel and destructive war.

Competition may be an issue.

The 8th house is the house of reversals and when the ruler of the 7th is in the 8th house, expect really profound and intense changes related to your relationships and partner as well.

The partner may cross over, get severely ill or have some darker sides.

Beware of compulsive obsessive traits and fixed convictions as well as black-and-white thoughts.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 9th house
Relationships have a fairy tale characteristic.

It's about the "grand amour" with high hopes and expectations.

Often, the partner has a totally different world view (because she or he is a foreigner, stranger or just someone living far away from the own birth place).

It's not the most realistic combination and you tend to live in an imaginary world, seeing the partner through rose-colored glasses and put him/her on a pedestal.

Encounters, relationships and/or the partner are often based upon imagination, which may not be the same as reality.

You see no problems, only solutions.

You want (and often are) to be loved and popular, always joyful and friendly.

Many love affairs are likely because you love so many people...

Ruler of the 7th house in the 10th house
You need more mature partners and in case you are a woman, chances are there is a HUGE age difference with your partner.

Also, your partner has to be a person of importance, someone of "significance" who climbed the (social) ladder and/or has a decent position you can look up to.

Your partner is valued by his or her accomplishments and how he or she is valued.

Status and prominence attract you.

Relationships have something conventional, traditional and may be rather "boring."

You need a partner to bring order and structure to your chaotic mind or life.

The downside is the partner is more concerned with his or her career than with the relationship or with the native.

The partner, other people and all kinds of encounters learn the native to be more responsible.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 11th house
This combination may bring a toggle relationship.

Often, love is at a distance and you are attracted to people you often can't have.

Bonding is really difficult with this combination and while you long for love and close comfort, you run away when you've found it.

Relationships tend not to endure and are rather short-lived.

You are attracted to unconventional and independent people who don't want to be pinned down.

You have it difficult to make choices.

Very often, you need many different relationships to feel good.

You can't stand emotions and/or emotional attachments.

It's a very contradictory configuration, bringing stress into your relationships too.

You may love to be part of groups or associations or clubs and you even meet a partner there.

Ruler of the 7th house in the 12th house
You may meet your partner through your working environment (your partner might be a customer).

Perhaps the partner loves solitude and is creative.

It's a passive combination in which your have to accept things as they are.

The 12th house is not a physical house at all so that you can detach yourself from physical experiences/pleasures and need a partner to live life on another level (a more spiritual level).

Relationships may be platonic and/or lived in the head, more than in reality.

Very often, relationships are kept private or even secret and hidden.

Your partner may be very artistic or be musically inclined, living his or her own inner world.

Beware of betrayal and secrets your partner does not disclose.

Expect the partner to be hospitalized also because illness is part of this rulership.

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